When it comes to love, everyone has there own way of loving. When it comes to marriage, some don't want the pressure of it. How do you feel?

 

Love is in the air with Valentine's Day and everyone loves in their own way. I was having a discussion with some friends and the topic of marriage came up. One of my guy friends has been with a girl for years and they just bought a house together; he says he will NEVER get married. One of my girlfriends dropped her jaw and said she can't wait to get married. There seems to be for some an unspoken pressure once you commit your life to someone. Marriage is very hard and is not a cake walk at times. I feel our society is 'in love' with the idea of getting married but, they don't see the reality of marriage. I say do whatever makes you happy. If you want to get married, go for it! If not, here is another option. How about just being engaged forever? When I told my guy friend this he died laughing and told me that was the smartest thing I have ever said.

As for me, who knows. Gees, I can't even keep a boyfriend for more than 6 months. If you have found love and marriage to be awesome, I am truly happy for you! But, just saying, for those that don't want to fully commit, how about just staying engaged to be married forever?

How do you feel? Is it marriage for you or would you like to just be engaged forever? 

 

According to onlyinyourstate.com, here are 5 of the best places to propose in New Hampshire:

5. Hampton Beach

 

4. Lake Chocorua, Tamworth

 

3. Rattlesnake Mountain, Holderness 

 

2. Saint Gaudens, Cornish

 

1. The Mount Washington Summit